I will never date a guy who smokes pot and sits around playing video games.
I think every girl is attracted to the "bad boys" and I think eventually we all end up dating one. This is important. You learn a lot about yourself and what you want out of life. We all have our 'turn-ons' and 'turn-offs' and my turn offs have to be guys who sit around smoking pot and playing video games. I've been there, done that, got the t-shirt. That guy is not my guy. Cheers to you if that's your thing, be yourself, but it's just not the type of people I want to surround myself with.
I'm almost 22 years old. I'm not looking for some silly high school, young love, type of relationship. In my experience (aka all three of my serious relationships) I don't like that in someone. It's just so careless and kind of lazy to be honest. Call me what you will, but I'm not into guys who do drugs and waste away. That's just where I stand.
I think it's so so so important that girls go through bad relationships like that. You realize what you're worth and who you want to surround yourself with. Girls in their 20's tend to date guys who they think would make a great father, even if they don't realize it. If you're dating someone who you wouldn't want to be the father of your child, well then you're just wasting your time.
I think guys who have self confidence and determination are attractive. I think guys who want to live an honest life and be happy and laugh are so attractive. Guys who smoke pot and play video games don't really know what they want out of life, and if they do then they're not really living up to the plans they set out in their heads. They are just kids, they're boys, not men. If you're someone who does drugs and plays video games, that's fine, it's your life, you just won't be a part of my life.
We all have our vices, but it's time to grow up.